Friday, September 26, 2008


I love the Heron!

"When you steadfastly refuse to think, act and conform to the mandates of others, the pressure to do so loses its momentum." Wayne Dyer

Monday, September 22, 2008

ATM - Fraud update

Ok I checked my account this morning, the bank still hasn't credited my $money back. So I called the fraud hotline. The person that answered told me it will be done today and I should see it back in there tomorrow.

They gave me the name NAME NAME and that the Flight is out of JFK airport, the date and to MXT anyone know where that is? They asked me if I knew this person. I asked them to spell the name so I could have it also. NO NO NO I don't know who this is.

I think we are going to bust these people. YIPPEE!

Still real curious how they got my ATM #. I've come to the conclusion that when I get my new ATM card. I'm not going to use it.

Saturday, September 20, 2008

Hawaii - I went there this year. It was so beautiful. I love this earth that we exist on. I know one day my body will cease to exist and my spirit will continue. I know I am here to learn lessons and grow.
I'm working on forgiveness and no person is perfect. We all make boo boos. We say things or do things and sometimes it can hurt others. I am finding out that I want to love life and work on myself. I can't help what others do or say, only myself.
It is better to be kind, than right.

I want to enjoy the beauty of my life no matter what ugly things occur.

Thursday, September 18, 2008

Debit Card Fraud

I will be filing a police report today.

On Monday my husband went to our bank, Wells Fargo to cash his check, like he always does. Mine automatically gets deposited by my employer. The teller proceeds to tell him that his account is overdrawn ($2,000.00)He was shocked! The teller asks him if he purchased airline tickets? He responds NO!

He was taken out of the line and spoke to another employee at wells fargo. They reviewed our account and noticed a charge for $1 at Napster and $1.00 at Priceline. My husband calls me. I'm at work, and I begin thinking where oh where did I used my ATM card, Safeway, the nail shop, online ATT, on the phone with Geico insurance while I was at the golf course. Oh no!!!! It's not safe oh CRAP!

These charges are pending and so we wait and see if we have a fraud case or not.
Tuesday, Wednesday, I check my account online no charges. Today yes the Delta Airline charges are there. I call the WFB fraud line... They fax me a statement that I need to sign, stating I did not sign for these charges or give permission to any one else to use my card. I had to email the fax home to my husband to sign, he faxed it back to me from his work and then I faxed it to the WFB fraud department after I signed it. They also told me I need to file a police report.

Ok there happens to be one right next door to the office that I work in. But no, won't take the report because I don't live in the city. Ok... They did tell me what will happen once I file the report. They will contact the police department in the city of Connecticut where Delta airlines is located and give them the numbers off of my statement.

WFB will credit my account within 24hours. whew. My debit card was cancelled, our account is okay. Some same close it, some say its okay. When I spoke with the police office next door. She told me that this happened to her and she still uses her atm card. hmmm not sure what I'm going to do. But I used it all the time. I had it in my possession and cut it up.

Someone out there stole the numbers off my card and charged airline tickets with it. YOU will get caught! So ATM card holders and users beware.

Sunday, September 7, 2008

Saturday, September 6, 2008

Internet Explorer Error

I know that for all of you who use the internet explorer for your browser that you get an error when you visit my blog. I have no idea why that is happening. Any clues please let me know.

Thursday, September 4, 2008


knock knock, open the door! Call the police there are people outside wanting to get in the house. Hurry call the police!!! Look see there they are out there in the street. They have guns!! Call the police. Call the police! See them they are getting closer. Call the police!!!

It was 1am in the morning. The knock was from my son on my bedroom door. He saw men outside our home trying to get in to kill us. No one was out there.

The next day I got up and went to work. I left work early to take him to the county dr. They put him on risperidone. It's a drug given to people with paranoia. I fight with him everyday to take his meds and its been very unpleasant. I want him to get well.

He has seen one therapist who doubled his dose. It makes him very edgy and he can't sleep. They also prescribed a benadryl for sleeping. He went yesterday for a physical. He is afraid of the side effects of the drugs. Tomorrow he goes back to the therapist, hopefully they will have the results of all the blood work. It

He doesn't want to take the drugs. Now his body vomits an hour after he takes them. He wants to be well without the meds. I want him to be well. I'm afraid he is making me sick.

I choose to concentrate my energy on making sure he is okay. My weekends I spend with him. I rarely take any time for me. After I get home from work I get dinner for us. We eat and go for a walk. He takes a shower. Tries to lay down to sleep and can't sleep. Danny Jason and I are doing the best we can to be patient and understanding. I feel like I'm crawling into a shell. It is scary for me.